There’s nothing to suggest that your recent date was infatuation. It sounds like you were either lonely because your girlfriend is out of town, or else you’re interested in exploring other options after dating your girlfriend of seven years. I think you chose someone to cheat with who has a boyfriend so you could know that she was “safe” and that your relationship with your long term girlfriend wasn’t really at risk. But now that that fling is out of the way, you’re questioning your motives.
Sometimes an infidelity like this will either cause you to realize your long term girlfriend is “the one” and it’s time to stop dating and start marrying — or else it can cause you to question being tied down for seven years to someone you really don’t want to marry because you’d like to know what else is out there.
Without a lot of information from you, it sounds like it’s the latter. 😕
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