[Spencer88]

So I’m in a really annoying situation right now……

I work at a small, low-key office. From the moment I walked in for my interview I developed a crush on one of my current co-workers. We have similar taste in music, we both are from the same hometown, similar interests, the list goes on and on.

I have truly fallen “head over heels” for this guy. I literally swoon the second I see him, I think about him constantly and I feel like a schoolgirl. Please let me say that I NEVER get like this and it actually freaks me out to think that I’m acting this way.

I find him staring at me a lot, trying to make small talk with me about work, lights my cigarettes for me (yeah yeah I know, filthy habit), and cracking kind of lame jokes. On the other hand, however, some days he seems totally distant and weird, and I don’t hear a peep out of him all day.

I’m not the most skilled flirt ever, and there is no way in HELL I’m going to ask him out myself, but I’m just going crazy thinking about him. I need to know if he likes me or not, but I am just not the type of person who can go about these things in an overt way. One day I think he likes me, the next day I think he hates me. I really just need some advice from people who have been in a similar situation.

[Ladycee]

Had the same experience at work. One day he likes me and the next cant stand me. I recently found out he is smokes a lot of weed and that explains all the inconsistencies in his attitude and behavior. I would say…find out what his outside habits are before you get further involved. Would save a lot of heartbreak.

[April Masini, your AskApril]

Happy New Year! Let me know how things are going for you.

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