[Anonymous]

This is rather a delicate subject and I’m quite glad that I’ve found such a friendly forum, I hope someone can help me out.

I’ve been with my partner for almost a year and a half now, not that long but we’re happy. Recently, the fire in the bedroom has started to die out. We’re fantastic with every other aspect of our relationship; we’re open, honest, spend quality time together. We go out a lot, I get on with his friends, he gets on with mine etc etc. However, in the bedroom…it’s a different story. My boyfriend doesn’t like to experiement too much and really the only position he’s fond of is the missionary position. What’s more, it takes him a very long time to cum. I don’t mind that it takes him a long time, that should be every girl’s dream that it lasts longer but the problem is that I start to get bored because well, as you can guess it doesn’t really get anywhere. It usually ends up with us getting to tired and quiting halfway through. I feel like it’s my fault that he can’t finish, does anyone have any advice?!

[April Masini, your AskApril]

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