[Anonymous]

Here’s the deal, I went to the mall today buy some clothes and there was this really cute girl that works there, that’s the only think I know about her so far…
I don’t know her name, where she lives, if she has a boyfriend, how old she is but I can’t stop thinking about her!
To make things worst, she is older than me (not that I care but she might), She is probably around 21~24 and I’m 16.

Should I go there again and try talk to her?
Can you give me some advices to get to know her and maybe go out with her?
Do You think the fact of me being only 16 might make her reject any incoming invite to go out with me?

Oh almost forgot. I’ve never kissed anyone before, nor had a girlfriend. I’m not good at talking to women but I’m decided to get to know this one

I can’t stop thinking about her, I met her yesterday and I’ve been thinking about her ever since…

Thanks, looking forward for any advices

[April Masini, your AskApril]

I usually say that age is not a barrier, but the reality is that you’re in high school and she’s a legal adult in the working world, and the gap is too great for this to work. In fact, as an adult, she shouldn’t be getting involved with minors (Sorry! I know you’re very mature, the reality is you’re still a minor teenager 😳 ).

My advice is to enjoy the fact that you have a crush on her, but let it go as a crush. Focus on getting dating experience with other teenagers. You can still go for an older woman, but make it a 17 year old!

I hope that helps.

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