[Javier]

Ever since college, I’ve liked Bianca. We’ve known each other for 4 years, and only now did I finally get the courage to confess my feelings to her because I was afraid that she might not like me back. And that’s exactly what happened. When I told her that I’ve liked her for a long time and that I wanted to court her, she replied, “Why me? There are so many other women out there. They deserve your effort more.” In short, she doesn’t agree with me courting her. I haven’t been able to sleep because I keep thinking about her answer. Can you help me with some advice on

How do I recover after getting rejected by someone I like?

[Lorraine]

She didn’t directly say that she doesn’t like you. She was only asking why her, when there are many other women out there who might deserve your love more. It’s possible that she’s just confused or maybe doesn’t have enough confidence right now to accept someone courting her. What you should have done was explain why you chose her. You could have given her positive comments about what made you like her so she could better understand and be convinced, instead of immediately assuming that she doesn’t like you.

[Prince]

To recover, you can try redirecting the feelings you have for her toward something or someone else, and just try to forget about her. That’s just how life is — we can’t always have everything we want. Maybe the reason it took you four years to confess is because deep down, you already knew that you weren’t really her type. Sorry, but you need to accept that.

[Member]

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