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Hello, my question revolves around my best friend and should I or shouldn’t I tell him how I feel about him. To give you a bit of background he and I have been friends for 10 years but, there was a 3 year break where we didn’t speak. The reason we didn’t speak is because we were both too stupid to get out of our own way and admit that we loved eachother. We found our way back to eachother about two years ago and that has made me so happy.

Now comes the question, I truly love him and want to tell him. I think he feels the same way about me. I am so scared because I don’t want to lose him in my life again. How do I tell him?

Thank you all and happy first day of summer

[April Masini, your AskApril]

How old are you both?

[DE34]

both in our early 30’s.
I know it seems insane given our age that this is an issue. I think that some of it has roots in the fact that I have been married and this wonderful sweet guy was there for the wedding and the divorce.

[April Masini, your AskApril]

Don’t tell him. It’s not the woman’s place to chase a man — and telling him you love him 😯 when he’s never even asked you out, is doing exactly that. 😕 If a man is interested in you, he’ll ask you out! And if by the time he’s in his mid-thirties, as you and your friend are, he hasn’t asked you out, chances are that he doesn’t see you as a girlfriend type. You can try and change that, but you’re going to have to change your behavior. Stop being his friend and stop acting like his friend. Instead, act like a woman who’s interested in him by flirting with him! 😉 If you change your behavior, maybe he’ll change his, and if he doesn’t, look elsewhere for a date.

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