Hi there,
So i went to a restaurant with my mom this evening for her birthday and we had a great time. A young lady there, a waitress brought us our food and that was that. As soon as i saw here i thought to myself..”damn, that’s a nice lady.” While we were eating i noticed that she glanced at me a few times while she was just waiting for customers. And when i paid for the food and we left, she said ”goodbye” in a certain way. Of course it could all be in my head and that it’s nothing, but i have a feeling the interest was mutual. Let’s just call it that.
It’s a fantastic place and definitely not too pricey, so i am gonna go there more often for a full meal or a quick bite. Let’s say i see her again next time….what is a good way to break the ice? I am absolutely ****ing terrible at small talk, i don’t like it, but then who does? I just never really know what to say. My intention is to basically ask her out for a drink, but i can’t just do that out of the blue. Chances are she won’t even recognize me next time, so i have to say something, do something that no other regular customer would do. I just need some advice, never hurts to get some advice.
A friend of mine who is absolutely not shy in any way and VERY good with women, he would just say she’s a damn fine lady and he’d like to get to know her better. But i definitely believe that it’s important how you say things, and some things should just not be said if you know you’re going to fail.
