[MarcusTownley]

Hi there,

So i went to a restaurant with my mom this evening for her birthday and we had a great time. A young lady there, a waitress brought us our food and that was that. As soon as i saw here i thought to myself..”damn, that’s a nice lady.” While we were eating i noticed that she glanced at me a few times while she was just waiting for customers. And when i paid for the food and we left, she said ”goodbye” in a certain way. Of course it could all be in my head and that it’s nothing, but i have a feeling the interest was mutual. Let’s just call it that.

It’s a fantastic place and definitely not too pricey, so i am gonna go there more often for a full meal or a quick bite. Let’s say i see her again next time….what is a good way to break the ice? I am absolutely ****ing terrible at small talk, i don’t like it, but then who does? I just never really know what to say. My intention is to basically ask her out for a drink, but i can’t just do that out of the blue. Chances are she won’t even recognize me next time, so i have to say something, do something that no other regular customer would do. I just need some advice, never hurts to get some advice.

A friend of mine who is absolutely not shy in any way and VERY good with women, he would just say she’s a damn fine lady and he’d like to get to know her better. But i definitely believe that it’s important how you say things, and some things should just not be said if you know you’re going to fail.

[April Masini, your AskApril]

I’d love to answer your question, but first… please repost as a “reply” to the string of posts you’ve already started on this site here: . It’s easier for me, and anyone else here who wants to weigh in, to see your entire string of posts in one place. I’ll look out for the repost and answer you there. 🙂

[MarcusTownley]

Yep i did that. I look forward to your advice. 🙂

[April Masini, your AskApril]

Great!

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