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How to get my XBF Back to me again??

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    brokenhearted11
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    I need your help. My bf broke up with me last May and then few weeks later he told me he found a new girl and during that tym he said they are just getting to know each other. I think after a month of break up he said he will try it again with me but after 24hrs he said he doesn’t feel right (well he told me that after he talked to that girl). He dumped me and played with my feelings bcoz I was excited & happy that he wants to try again but then after he talked to a new girl he change his decision. 2months of break up this July, I asked him if his single/in a relationship and he said SORTA in a relationship and I asked him again if his inlove with this girl and he said not yet but they always talk everyday… I told him I love him and I miss him and he said He love me & He miss me too. He said he love me but his not in love with me, he said that he needs to find his soul, he said his life is a messed… I don’t really know what to do. PLEASE Help me and give me advice coz I honestly want and love him back. I want that he will be in love with me, I want to build my future with him, I want him back bcoz I love him very much… Honestly my life is in a big messed since he go away from me. I felt that the more he talk to that girl the more his go far away. He talk to me only if I message/call him but he don’t make the first move now. PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE HELP ME and I need an answer…

    Thank You very much.. Looking forward in your reply…

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    We all want things — to be President of the United States, Miss America, married to George Clooney, taller, blonder, happier — but it doesn’t mean we can have them. You may want your ex-boyfriend back, but he doesn’t want you. I’m sorry to be blunt, but you’re not hearing him, so maybe you’ll hear me. It takes two people to make a relationship work, but only one to end it.

    That said, if you’re trying to get ANY man to want you, you should read Think & Date Like A Man, [url]https://www.askapril.com/relationship-dating-advice/think-and-date-like-a-man.html[/url], a book I wrote for women who want to find, get and keep Mr. Right. You can buy it on the link I’ve given you or on the websites for Amazon or Barnes & Noble. In it, among other very important things, you’ll learn why it’s important NOT to chase a man. It won’t get you anywhere good. So stop texting him and stop telling him you love him, when you know he isn’t responsive or interested.

    Instead, treat the rejection like a gift instead of a booby prize. I know it hurts to be rejected, but the bigger picture will let you see that you’re being steered away from a man who isn’t interested so you can spend your energy on those who are! It’s time for you to cast your gaze elsewhere and find a man who wants you and who can offer you a lot more than this guy can — which right now, is nothing. 😳

    I hope that helps. Please let me know how things go, and follow me @AskAprilcom on Twitter. 😀

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