[dina gaga]

hello,how are you April? I hope you could help me as fast as you can because I am really feeling so down.
I knew a guy since 5 years,I knew him through a friend I used to know then I started to like him so much but I did not tell him anything,he was sweet to me in the beginning but a friend of mine told me that this guy takes drugs stay away from him,as a child of 15 years old I went to the guy I like and told him ” hey take care of that man he is saying that about ya ! ” He got mad and then thanked me,and told me you’re a good friend,yeah I know that he’s jealous of me

Anyway 3 days later,I asked him If I could draw him,he got very excited and yeaaah draw me,I drew him,he put the drawing as his profile picture but I found out that a guy who used to like me secretly wrote rude comments under the photo,the guy I LIKE did not say anything.I asked him If he could remove the photo,he did not answer,and just removed it,I texted him 3 days later and he did not answer me so I called him from an unknown number he answered he said yeah who,I said I am Dina the one you ignore,he laughed and said yeaah i don’t ignore you i was just away from my laptop I said okay fine anyway I removed you out of my facebook because it seems like you ignore me ! he did not say a word then after a while he said add me again i said okay

I added him,he blocked me 🙂 anyway we were kids ! I was 15 and he was 17
HONESTLY i tried to chase him to understand the reason of his block but IN VAIN,anyway I met him by accident in a café with the guy who likes me,I said hello to the guy WHO LIKES ME and ignored the one WHO I LIKE,I found him starring at me and came up ” Hey Dina,don’t you want to say hello?” I just smiled and said you blocked me ! he said ” Hey I did not,listen I am sorry,sorry about my rude way to you okay? just accept my sorry please ” I got very happy and I accepted his sorry so as he said sorry and was really nice to me when I came back home I said why don’t I add him on FB he unblocked me ! so i added him but he does not ignore my request and he does not accept it ! I called him,he answered I asked him hey why you don’t accept my friend’s request he said : Oh yeah! I will for sure ! but he BLOCKED ME 🙂

a month later one of his best friends added me and I told him everything,he told me girl he’s maniac ! leave him ! he’s a jerk ! I was really surprised that his best friend is insulting him so as a stupid child I sent a message to the guy I like from another account telling him take care this guy is not good behind your back ! He answered me RUDELY !!!!!!!! what he exactly said : WHAT DID HE SAY? GOOOO AHEAD AND TELL ME I DON’T HAVE THE TIME TO WASTE WITH YOU ! i told him everything then nothing

after a year,I saw him by chance,so I remembered him and I added him * he unblocked me * HE ACCEPTED 🙂 and he was really happy,he said Dina my facebook is glittering now 🙂 i was happy but 3 hours later he sent me a message telling me : WHAT DO YOU WANT? I said i want to be your friend ! he answered : LOL ! FRIEND ! look I am going out now when i come back i will talk to you bye ! he blocked me 🙂

NOW I AM 20 YEARS OLD,he sent me a year ago a message saying : you always cross my mind , I did not answer ! he sent me another one hey? I said yes if you want to talk to me add me,HE DID NOT BUT HE ADDED ME A FEW MONTHS AGO,I was totally surprised ! I asked myself why did he remember me NOW ! and then I remembered that I texted one of his best friend with a wrong message so maybe he told him anything about me mmmm I dunno ! anyway I confirmed him,He sent me a message ” do you remember me?” I said : I don’t confirm people I don’t know He said : How are you? I said : why did you add me ? He said : for no particular reason,I said okay I will go to bed now bye !, then i found him writing on his fb as a status : You always cross my mind,all the girls asked him who,he laughed and said none of your business and as I was so intrested in zodiac,i found him sharing something about his zodiac sign ” Capricorn ”

2 days later he sent me a message : HEY you don’t want to talk to me so look I just wanted to say sorry,i was a foolish guy i did bad things to so many people,I was not only bad to you but i was bad to everyone,i am sorry please forgive me so many others did not forgive me,I said people who did not forgive you are the ones who don’t care about you! he asked me so you care about me? I said yes sure,he said thank you then i asked him the reason behind his block,he said I did not block you,I just deactivated my account for months *LIAR* I did not comment

2 days later I found him writing a sad pm on FB so I asked him whats wrong,he saw my message but did not answer so i texted him again saying : YOU NEVER CHANGE,listen don’t be afraid you;re just like my brother okay? so answer me !
his answer LOL I was driving my car by the way so I could not answer and stop creating scenarios out of NOTHING,I did not answer

the next day,I told him why are you sad,are you in love 🙂 ? I can help you ! he said tell me about capricorn,I told him many things then tell me about AQUARIUS( thats my zodiac sign) I was about to answer then he said LOOK my battery is so low so when i come back home i will talk to you,he came back home he did not talk to me i found him having fun with some girls on his fb,i ignored him back like he ignores me !

His birthday came,I did not greet him,2 days later he blocked me AGAIN

I did not say a word this time but I saw him by chance,he ignored me like hell,but I noticed that he glances at me and he was trying to be around me but never look at me,I sent him a msg from another account asking him nice job ! he did not answer after 2 months,i mean NOW i sent him a message : why do you block me? why do you hate me ? just tell me the reason etc etc and full of nice words,he ignored the message,I saw him yesterday in the cafe i used to go,once he saw me he looked down and he hold his mobile phone and never look right or left JUST IN THE MOBILE and he lowered his head,i ignored him and left

WHY HE IS DOING THAT TO ME? he talks to every girl EXCEPT ME,he even got fake profiles on his fb but me noooooooo,he talks to bad girls but me nooooooooo ! why ! what do you think,I honestly LIKE HIM SO MUCH what should I do 🙁

[April Masini, your AskApril]

He’s not that into you. You should find someone who is, instead of focusing on someone who isn’t, and wondering over and over, for years, [i]why[/i] he isn’t into you. Oh! And remember not to chase guys. It takes the opportunity for them to chase you, away from them! 😉

I hope that helps.

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[natellaine]

WHY HE IS DOING THAT TO ME? he talks to every girl EXCEPT ME,he even got fake profiles on his fb but me noooooooo,he talks to bad girls but me nooooooooo

He talks to every girl except you? i think he doesn’t have the guts to do it after all those things he did to you.
He talks to bad girls but not you? Simply because you are not like them, you are not a bad girl.

Think of it this way, forget about him. He’s not worth your love, girl. Why don’t you just focus on the guy WHO LIKES YOU? He told you that the GUY YOU LIKE is a jerk, and its TRUE! Maybe he’s telling the truth. So i bet give him a chance! You never know, maybe he’s the one you’ve been waiting for.

And oh! About that JERK. Blocked him in facebook!!!

[dina gaga]

you’re right,I felt that he is not intrested but Is he interested in every girl he talks to except me ? He talks to bad girls and ugly ones but me no,what would he lose if he talks to me? and he’s the one who added me,and I did not bother him I even did not greet him ! so I don’t disturb him at all, I just want you to tell me what do you think? why is he avoiding me ? for example : did someone tell him not talk to me or he hates me ?

[April Masini, your AskApril]

I’m not sure why you’re spending so much energy on someone who’s not interested in you! 😯 Since you’re not related to him, unless you’re his physician, it isn’t your place to be questioning his motivations. My advice is that you stop wasting your time on a guy who you admit isn’t interested in you, and focus on YOU, not him. 😉 Figure out what you want, and go for it. Spending a lot of time worrying about other people’s’ motivations is a way of avoiding your own issues. 😕 It’s good if you can recognize this in yourself so that you can make adjustments and start focusing on yourself. 😀

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[dina gaga]

yes you’re right,I should forget about him,thank you so much April,I owe you a huge thanks 🙂

[April Masini, your AskApril]

You’re very welcome. 😀

Good luck. 😉

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[Jess22i1]

I feel like I may be in a similar situation however my guy is not that much of a jerk, he is very charming lol but having said that I feel I should let him go but I know how hard it is, the difference with my situation I was sleeping with him, I just did yesterday after months go not doing it. In your situation sounds like he is not interested in you, but likes the attention and likes playing with your feelings, I think with the satuts in Facebook you may be reading too much into them and giving him too much power by texting him and pming on Facebook when he doesn’t reply, I would suggest block his Facebook and his phone number and getting him out of your life once and for all, he sounds like an emotional vampire you don’t need that xx

[April Masini, your AskApril]

Happy New Year! Let me know how things are going for you. 😉

[Natalie Noah]

You’ve been caught in an exhausting cycle with this guy years of mixed signals, blocking, unblocking, and emotional whiplash. What stands out most is that he isn’t consistent or reliable, and he hasn’t shown genuine interest in building a respectful, reciprocal connection with you. Instead, his behavior flashing attention then withdrawing it, ignoring your messages, and only reaching out sporadically seems designed to keep you uncertain and emotionally hooked. That pattern is emotionally draining, and it’s understandable that you keep asking why he avoids you, but the answer isn’t about you. it’s about him and the way he handles relationships.

The repeated cycle of chasing him and trying to understand his motives is giving him power over your emotions. You’ve noticed that he talks to other girls but not to you, that he blocks you repeatedly, and that he creates confusion with half-hearted apologies and vague messages. This isn’t a reflection of your worth; it’s a reflection of his immaturity and lack of genuine interest. Investing your time and energy in someone who doesn’t value or prioritize you prevents you from focusing on people who would genuinely care for and respect you.

Your best move, as April wisely advised, is to step back and reclaim your energy. Stop chasing him, block or unfollow him if necessary, and redirect your focus to yourself and your own happiness. Pursue friendships, hobbies, and people who genuinely make you feel seen, valued, and respected. Let go of the “why” and “what if” questions. they’re traps that keep you emotionally stuck. By prioritizing yourself, you’ll naturally attract healthier, more consistent relationships where your feelings and time are respected.

It’s worth remembering that closure doesn’t always come from someone else. it comes from your own decision to stop revolving your life around their inconsistent attention. You’ve already recognized that he isn’t interested, and that awareness is a huge step. Now the next step is acting on it: choosing people who lift you up rather than drain you. That’s how you honor your worth and create space for someone who will truly cherish you.

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