Since you’ve only been dating for two weeks, you’re still getting to know him as a romantic partner, which is very different than a friend. My advice is to stay open minded about the relationship. Just because you had two great weeks of dating, it doesn’t mean that it’s always going to be smooth sailing or that the two of you are cut out for each other. I know he SAYS he wants to be your boyfriend, but it’s smart to judge his actions as “louder” than his words. He doesn’t really seem like he’s ready to get involved emotionally with you yet. In fact, he seems like he’s still stuck in his break up, feeling sorry for himself. Different people take different lengths of time to process a failed relationship. He’s taking a long time — but you can’t hasten his process. It’s his.
Don’t try to fix him. He’s not broken — but he’s definitely not on the same page you are. Don’t get too invested. I’m not sure he’s going to be able to follow through on his promise of being your boyfriend. ๐
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