[Anonymous]

the story began when i was enter my high school,i saw my 2nd grade senior and i fell in love with her(love at the first sight) because she is very beautiful and her short hair is suitable to my criteria,but i didn’t dare to approach her or even said anything to her until i reached the 2nd grade,but on my birthday (that time i was on 2nd grade and she was on 3rd grade) she bbm me and said happy birthday but at this time she already had a bf and i was happy but there is no hope and 2 months later she broke up with her bf.I got close to her when it came to her birthday,i congratulate her birthday via bbm and we started to reply every bbm which we send to each other,we discussed a lot of things.Until one day she called me first and i was like wooowwww,then the very next day i was brave enough to call her then i though i can make her mine, we cannot meet each other because my school is boarding school and she already finished the final test for the 3rd grade so she just waited for the graduation day at home while i was at my boarding school studying for the exam. At 9th June 2011 i confessed that i like her and i was asking her opinion about my feelings to her and she said SORRY, my heart was broke like a pieces of sand, i tried to forget about her or contact her anymore but the next day she bbm me and said “are you angry with me?” “do you still want to talk with me?” and i said “yeah i’m fine” “i just need a little bit longer to calm my heart”. After 4 days passed,i had an event at my school,she bbm me and ask “how are u” i said “i’m having a fever and i have to attend the event” and she was showing she cared to me and i can’t resist it. After the event finished i went back to my dormitory and i bbm her the event was done,and then she suddenly called me and once again she was showing a hope and i though maybe this is this time i will make it,she asked me to meet her one day before the graduation day. But when i started to approach her i was to afraid so we didn’t have a conversation at that time,at night i called her,told her “i’m sorry and tomorrow i’m gonna brave enough to meet her” she said “ok”,tomorrow when the graduation day,i succsessed to talk with her,sit next to her,having a photo with her,and gave her birthday present. after the graduation finished i went home and i was thinking i wont see her again next year.She bbm me and asked “are u going tomorrow to the promnight?” i said “nope,i have family reunion” i know she wanted to meet me and she mad at me. the next day i tried to call her and congratulate her for being a prom queen but she rejected the call and i saw her tweet she is falling in love with someone boyfriend. now my heart is broken,i cant forget about her,i check her twitter update every second now,am i a psycho or what?what should i do to forget her or to make everything’s better?please help me out!!

[April Masini, your AskApril]

I’m sorry you’re hurt. Rejection stings, but the truth is that it’s a lot better in the big picture, to know that someone is not available to be your girlfriend, so that you can move on and not have contact — otherwise she’s going to keep breaking your heart over and over every time you think you have a chance even though she’s told you she’s not interested in more than just friends. 😳

So if you don’t spend time with her and you don’t talk to her on the phone or by instant message or online, you’re going to get over her a lot sooner than if you do. Another way to get over a heartbreak is to stay busy! Make new friends. Try a new sport or hobby. Sitting around is going to just give you time to have a pity party. 🙁 Getting out and being active is going to give you a new lease on life. 😀

I hope that helps. Let me know how things go, and please follow me @AskAprilcom on Twitter and on Facebook at this link: [url][/url]. 😀

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