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I was with a boyfriend for a year and a half.. the first 6 months was great but after.. intimacy decreased and I kept asking what went wrong.. it was coincided with me cutting my hair super short and he got busy with work. He told me things were great just that he was preoccupied with work.. I took it and we were more like friends than boyfriend-girlfriend. We had occasional fights but nothing we didn’t get over quickly. Until about 2-3 months ago when he came back from a trip and I didn’t get to spend time with him for about 3 weeks, I asked whether we could spend an evening together.. he said he planned to help his woman friend at her house with a TV problem and grabbed dinner.. but I could come over later in the evening. I asked who she was and how he knew her and apparently they dated for a while and they broke off because of personality incompatibility. But when I mentioned that I didn’t really like that.. he was angry with me.. very angry. I couldn’t understand why. We were apparently took a break then (according to him) but he was still calling and texting me daily. Things went along that way for about a month, he went away on another trip where there were no contact with the outside world.. when he came back, he was all in into the relationship and told me he thought about us a lot and he resolved his conflict. But just after 3-4 days, he was back to withdrawing and distancing himself, avoiding me but out partying with other people. When I asked, he was again angry.. last encounter, he was very distance and angry (again) and I asked what was going on with us… he said.. not good. I was confused. He then emailed me later asking to take a break. I emailed back that it was a good idea and also told him how I felt over the past couple of months (apparently pointing out his faults).. he was angry with me.. AGAIN!!!! I sent him another email saying that it’s not just him but me as well and that I’ll leave to him to get back to me to talk when he’s ready. It’s been 3 weeks since then.

Are we over?

[April Mașini, your AskApril]

[quote]Are we over?[/quote]

If you’re not you should be. 😕 It sounds like you had six good months and then a year of bad relationship that is begging to be put out of it’s misery. You’re clearly not right for each other, and my advice is to move on. You can have a much healthier, happier relationship — and life — by finding someone to date who wants to be with you and isn’t angry you so much! 😉

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