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Is he controlling or am I overreacting?

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    BethanyAnn
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    [size=150]I don’t know if I’m making mountains out of mole hills or if my boyfriend really is this controlling, see we started to date a while ago and in the beginning sure he was a little overprotective, but now it just seems like well he is trying to control me. He continuously tells me that he doesn’t want me doing this or that, like talking to some of my old friends and the gender of them doesn’t even seem to matter, that I’m not supposed to wear anything that exposes my legs, stomach, shoulders, or neck, but we live in the desert so it makes me feel miserable the whole time, I’m not allowed to talk to anyone about anything that isn’t just the typical stranger talk “how’s the weather, oh well that’s good” sort of thing, I’m supposed to smile at all times, which is difficult because my nephew just got taken into child services and I lost all of my friends I could talk to because of him, not to mention I’m not allowed to contact my family. I love him I truly do, but sometimes I just wonder why he is acting like this and if he is being to controlling or if I just need to be controlled as such or if it’s not truly a big deal. Please help I could really use some advice.[/size]

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    Ask April Masini
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    It sounds like he doesn’t want you to be yourself. He’s hoping to turn you into someone you’re not. This isn’t love or respect. You’re not overreacting. It’s time for you to move on and find someone who is interested in you for who you REALLY TRULY are.

    I hope that helps. Let me know how things go.

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