Hello Allen,
It’s true Todays Generation is not value what true love is , love becomes a game for them
People fear about commitments and to take any responsibilty, they believe in easy way that is to step up or to leave the person and move on to the next is the easiest way to get rid of from any commitments.
And you’re right about modern dating. A lot of people treat exits like image management, staying just long enough to feel good, leaving before they’re responsible for anything real.
If you really want to know difference between someone who is truly confused about their feelings and someone who just likes the attention but never planned to stay
Here are a few questions for you to sit with:
1. When they pulled away, did their words still match their actions?
2. Did clarity scare them, or did it inconvenience them?
3. Were you building something together, or were you carrying most of the emotional weight?
4. If nothing changed, would you feel secure staying?
The right people don’t make connection feel like a trap.
They make it feel like something worth choosing, even when it’s uncomfortable.
And if you’re tired of half-people and soft exits, that’s not bitterness.
That’s discernment.
If you need another Prospective then Ask April
