Hello I’m a male in my late 20s and I have a younger girlfriend. Just last year we went on a threesome site looking for a girl or couple to meet and hang with. We met them once and after we met them together he asked my girlfriend if she wanted to come over by herself. She decided she wanted to go. So she went. She told me she wants to have an open relationship. Should I be worried? I’ve tried telling my girl my feelings but I feel like she doesn’t care. I tell her I don’t like her doing it. She says it’s not about what we want it’s what she wants. She says she wants to be selfish for a while. She says she this won’t last forever. She sees him a few times a month and says it’s not just about the sex. She tells me he has more confidence than I do. She likes him because he’s older and he try’s new things. I’m not that sexually experienced and neither is she. She says I need to stop being jelous that it’s pushing her away. He has a girlfriend already and sees another girl plus my girl now. My girl says they had a talk about not falling in love and he even talks to her about our relationship am I in trouble
Whenever you invite a third (or fourth) person into your bedroom, you’re asking for problems. And you got them! 😕 She’s no longer just your girlfriend. She’s this other guy’s girlfriend, too. And there will probably be others soon. She’s been very up front with you about her choices. You’re not the only man in her life any more.
