[Andjelaa]

Dear April,
I’ve been dating this guy for 2months now. At first,he was all caring,buying me presents,taking me out,spending so much time with me.Then,all of the sudden ( which started happening aproximately 15days ago) he started acting all strange and what not. Barely sending me messages,only when needing to see me (which became more rare than before,2 days a week at most), and when I send him message he talks like I’m making him do that. Our communication lacks emotions,and during these 2months I did not suceed amd getting to know him at all.
Should I talk to him about breaking up,because I believe this is a red flag?
Thanks,Andjela

[AskApril Masini]

It sounds like you’ve been dating this guy for two months and at the six week mark he started losing interest. He probably met someone else he prefers or else he just lost interest. Since you’ve only been dating for a couple of months at most, there’s not really a need to “break up” since you’re just dating. I think that you should hang back and see if he shows interest. If he does, then you can see what’s there. If he doesn’t, then you’ve just realized this isn’t going to work, and you can move on. Save the break up for when there’s more of a relationship to actually break up from. 😉

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