Need Advice! Me and this co-worker are interested in each other, his ask me out several time, but I never confirm a date or time. Since we are co-worker people at work, especially woman have notice thing that are going on between us. There starting to make comments, especially this one particular co-worker who like him. She being trying to cause problem between us two. He keeping telling me “Ma don’t let them or her bother You”. He also express that he didn’t want to lose our relationship. Today at work the same woman and her friend follow me into the restroom, were they begun to make comment and share., Shortly after I approach him with my concern with this woman. Lately we both have notice changes in our co-workers bahavior toward at work, Me and him have never being out on a date, his ask me several time like I stated, but this particular reason is why I didn’t want to get involve with a co-worker. Later that day I approach him again and ask him”When are we going to hang out” his response was” You know I can’t hang-out at work, Yea I think I can’t hang-out at work, it not that I don’t trust you, I don’t think we can hang out at work”, he keep saying at work. Honestly that wasn’t my intention I really meant outside work, but I never made that know to him, and I assume he meant work because that the ONLY time we communicate. I know at the time I ask him there were other co-worker listen to our conservation. I feel like he was brushing me off, but most of friend are stated that he wasn’t brushing you off, he was trying to give you hints, that you guys need to take this relationship outside workplace.. I know he mention that he didn’t want to lose his job. Need Advice! Do you think this was his intention? Are has he move on? Are does he want a relationship?
