[Anonymous]

I been dating my boyfriend for 2years and 2 months. Lately he’s been acting violent? We been having lots of problems lately. I told him I wanted to break up since last week. He keeps insisting to give him a chance. The reason y I want to break up is because he slapped me before. A long time ago. And I couldn’t like that to happen again. So I want to put an stop by Breaking up? I don’t know if is a good reason. he keeps crying for a chance n begs me. He grabbed my wrist a little hard yesterday because of thatt. Im 20 and he is 19. Also the other day at school he was helping me to register for my classes (on the computers) and I told him to hurry up because I wanted to go n I yelled again to him to hurry up to help me and he got mad and just left me there. By the way I was sitting next to this perverted old man who was looking at provocative girls pictures. And still my bf left. The other day that I asked him for a ride from his grandma (from school to home) we where walking my friend to his bus stop while his grandma picked us (m3 & my bf) up. My bf then said if I wanted to go to his grandmas house and I said no and asked him if he fprgot what happened there. (He slappedme there a year ago). He got so mad because I said it on front of my friend. he then turned around and left. Left me with my friend at school. I had to get a bus to get home. I’m also a very angry person. I yelled at him all the time. I’m not a good person either. Honestly. What Iike about my bf is that he is very honest. Doesn’t lie like my other bfs. he is nice and patience. I think i can see myself marry with him but i dont know if we have any future anymore…I think he’s a great guy any girl would die to date but I don’t know if with my attitude I changed him to treat me bad lately. but what I don’t like is the other side od him. What should I do??? Plz help me. I been wit him for 2 years n 2 months.

[Ask April Masini]

You like him because he’s honest, but dislike his violence. Hmmmm….. 😕 I don’t think you have to make a compromise here. You’re only 20 years old, and there are plenty of men out there who are both honest AND non-violent. Just because you’ve invested two years in this guy doesn’t mean he’s Mr. Right. In fact, you’re clearly concerned about the violence — and rightly so. ❗

Instead of seeing yourself married to someone with anger and violent tendencies, picture Mr. Right — someone who isn’t violent and only gets angry when it’s normal to.

This isn’t the guy for you. It’s time for you to gather all your resources, because I can tell this is going to be hard for you, and move on. 😳

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[Anonymous]

He said he’ll do anything to bring us back together. Should I believe that?. . Or just move on?
Thank you! I’ll really help me with your answer.

[Ask April Masini]

You should just move on. Re-read your posts and you’ll see that you’re concerned about his violence and his temper and his lack of impulse control. These are all issues which make him a far cry from Mr. Right. You can do a lot better for yourself — if you make the space for someone new to come into your life.

I hope that helps.

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