[ForeverYoung]

What do you think of relationships and the work place?

I’m kind of starting to like this guy I work with. We always play around with each other, joking around, play fighting, hugs, looking at each other and conversations involving friends, family, the kind of family life we want when we get older, relationships, and once involving sex. He was the first to really try to get to know me when I started working there a few months ago, and he is continuously still helping me, he’s more mature than the average 19 year old (compared to the ones that I meet anyways). Do you think I’m thinking it’s more than it really is?

[April Masini, your AskApril]

I think it’s very natural to meet people at work, and it’s fine to date a colleague. Just make sure you keep the romance outside of the office, and you understand that the office can be like high school sometimes — people will talk. But definitely enjoy it! 😀

As for having sex before dating — probably not a good idea. Men have sex because they can, and since you see each other every day, you probably want to make sure you’re not just convenient — but actually someone worth chasing after and winning over. 😉

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[ForeverYoung]

Okay good 🙂 so I’m not reading into things too much?

[April Masini, your AskApril]

I’m not sure what it is you’re reading into the relationship or what you think it is…..

[ForeverYoung]

The relationship because he still didn’t make and effort to ask me for my number.

[April Masini, your AskApril]

If he hasn’t asked you for your number, or asked you out on a date, the you shouldn’t get too invested in a relationship that doesn’t yet exist. 😉 There’s an old saying, “Don’t put all your eggs in one basket,” because if the basket drops you loose all your eggs. Instead, play the field so that if he does ask you out, you can be pleased, and if he doesn’t, you have other irons in the fire. 😉

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[ForeverYoung]

Lol 😆 I get what you’re saying.

[April Masini, your AskApril]

Good luck!

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