[Jlb22]

My boyfriend’s exe and mother of his 5 yr old daughter wants to use his sperm to have another child. They both want a sibling for their daughter and would like it to be from same parents. We are both 39 yrs old and I have two children from my previous marriage.
I was shocked, hurt and upset that he would even being this to me. We live together and have a great relationship.

In the past him and I discussed having a child but decided due to our ages and my kids are 20 and 14 that it wasn’t something we wanted to do.
Now he brings this to me??? His exe is the one who asked him and her reasoning is to have another sibling for their 5 year old. She’s 29 and single.
I welcome all opinions, I think it’s nuts and have told him if he decides to go through with it, I will not be around.

[April Masini, your AskApril]

What his ex wants to do is less important than what he wants to do. 😉 The world is full of exes with crazy behavior. But the reality is you’re not in a direct relationship with his ex. You’re in a relationship with him. You didn’t mention his feelings or intentions. Fill me in! 🙂 How long have the two of you been together? Living together? Any marriage plans?

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