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Hi,
I got a girlfriend who i love so much and i know she does too,
It’s been for about 40 days that she’s started acting weird,she seems very sad,depressed not willing to talk and hang around much…. Every time i ask her what’s going on,she says that the problem is not between you and me,but is affecting me very much and i really cant talk about it with you,
That clues lead me to the conclusion that the problem is something domestic and in the family,am i really right?
And if i do,what should i do about it after all? Because we haven’t gone for a dinner,a movie or something(we’ve been only meeting at our spanish class) ,because every time she says believe me i want to hang around with you more than you do but i really cant right now,
My question is that how should i cope with this problem? because i don’t this relationship end,we have no problem and we love each other,
Thanks,

[April Masini, your AskApril]

It sounds like you’ve never actually dated. 😯 You just hang out in Spanish class. This isn’t a romantic relationship. It’s a friendship, and frankly, if she can’t tell you what’s going on in her life, she’s not a close friend. 🙁 If she doesn’t want to tell you about her problems, there’s nothing you can do to force her to. Back away and leave her alone. She isn’t interested in a relationship right now.

Find someone who is.

I hope that helps.

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Actually you misunderstood me,
I meant we haven’t dated in the last 40 days,But we have been dating for 3 months before that,because of that problem we couldn’t date each other,
thanks,

[April Masini, your AskApril]

If you dated for three months, and then she refused to go out with you for the next month or so, it sounds like she isn’t interested. 😳 If she doesn’t want to tell you what her problem is, she may be making one up so she doesn’t have to come right out and say no to you. Basically, if she’s pushing you away after three months of dating, you need to back off and find someone who’s available to date you. Not everyone is going to be your match because either you’re not compatible, or they’re not available!

I hope that helps.

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