[southernbelle]

Ok so I reconnected with a guy I had a crush on in high school. We are both in our early 20’s now. We went on a date over the weekend and ended up sleeping together. We have continued to talk to each other every day since then. We even hung out last night, just laid on the couch together and watched a movie. I am crushing on him really hard. He told me that he could see us dating but it has been about 3 years since he’s been seriously involved with anyone. He even told his friends that he could easily date me.I would really like to date him. How do I find out how he feels about me? I feel like I’m in middle school again.

[April Masini, your AskApril]

Got it! Makes perfect sense.

The way to find out if a guy wants to date you — is if he asks you out on a date. 😀 I know that sounds round about, but it’s actually very simple and very true. That said, if you make things too easy, and don’t give him something to chase after, it’s going to be very difficult for you to figure out if he wants to date you. For instance, if you hang out, you’ve taken away the opportunity for him to ask you out on a date. If you talk every day, or are too available, you’ve taken away the opportunity for him to chase after you. You can be receptive and flirtatious, but leave him wanting more — which will lead to his dating you. 😉

If you want to read [b]Think & Date Like A Man[/b], I think you’ll find some helpful tips and advice for getting guys to date you. 🙂 Here’s the link for the book — I wrote it for women like yourself: [url]https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/think-date-like-a-man-april-masini/1104522250?ean=9780595374663&itm=1&usri=9780595374663[/url].

I hope that helps.

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[southernbelle]

So April,
I just sit back and wait for him. I mean continue living my life but let him make the next moves? I could really see a future with him so I don’t want to go about this wrong.

[April Masini, your AskApril]

Yes, let him make the next move. And if you really care about this relationship and don’t want to go about it in the wrong way, buy and read the book I suggested! 😉 It will give you a leg up on the competition, as well as offer you tips and advice on how to be the woman who gets the guy. 🙂

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[southernbelle]

I’m trying to figure out how a guy is feeling about me. We went to high school together and have reconnected since then. We went on a date and had a great time. We ended up sleeping together and I stayed the night over at his apartment. We have been texting each day since then. A few days later I went over to his place again and we watched a movie on the couch. He has told me thru text and in person that he could date me and does like me. When I went over to watch a movie, he kept bringing up a wedding he is in and how he asked the bride if he could bring a date. I didn’t know if he was hinting at asking me so I didn’t say anything. He also told several of his friends that he likes me and wants to keep seeing me and can see dating me long term. I am just trying to get a gauge as to how he is feeling. I could see something with him. Am I being crazy? I don’t want to push him away. How do I move forward? Ok so now I need updated advice. He is in the military so he’s been at officer training drill since the 12th. I saw and talked to him on the 10th. Well on the 17th he adds me on snapchat but doesn’t snapchat me or text me or anything. It’s been over a week since I’ve heard from him. What should I do? Is he blowing me off? Should I drop him? Is he really that busy that he can’t text me but he can add me on snapchat?

This boy has me so confused. I think I am more into him than he is into me.

[April Masini, your AskApril]

You seem to be asking the same questions today that you asked 5 days ago. 😕 I thought my advice to you was good. Is there a reason you’re not taking it? Did you buy and read the book I suggested?

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