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I met a man online about two and a half months ago, and at first things were great. ME and him have a lot in common, and we’ve always been direct and honest when speaking to each other. He lives a little far (No more than a 2 hour plane ride) and about three weeks ago he mentioned coming to see me.
At about a month and a half he did something that made me uneasy, and when he found out I was hurt he apologized and asked for my forgiveness. He also said he’s never hurt me again. (Just htought this info would be helpful)

He usually calls me ever 3 or 4 days, but it has been 17 days since Ive actually heard his voice. He sends text messages ever couple of days sometimes I initiate but not much.

Two days ago he said he would call me the following day (Yesterday), and yesterday he told me he was tired and would call me today. It is now 10:48 PM and I haven’t heard a word. I’m thinking about just letting him go, even though we have good chemistry.

Everytime I speak with him on the phone everything is great, but he takes forever to reply to text messaages, and this is him third time lying about when he will call.

He mentioned once or twice that he was going through stressful situation regarding his job, but I know that is no excuse to not keep his word. I’m starting to feel disgusted by him.

Should I stop talking to him, and move on? Or should I wait until we meet in person?

*I should also mention that Ive been hurt and in pain for the last week, he knows this, but still decided not to call, and ignore me.

[April Masini, your AskApril]

Yes, let him go and move on. 😳 When meeting potential mates online, remember that a 2 hour PLANE RIDE 😮 away is too far for a normal relationship. Also, if he doesn’t arrange a real face to face date after about three weeks, he’s not that interested in you. That you’ve never met him after about three months is a big go-ahead to move on. Remember, behavior is more important in telling how a man feels about you than language is.

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