Long story short We are in our mid 20’s my girlfriend and I have been together almost 2 years. We talk about everything so we know how things make us feels etc. We’ve been on the subject of masturbating before and the solution we’ve come up with is that she made some pictures for me so I could do it to her. But since then she’s tried really hard to take care of my needs so I don’t even have to use them. so I don’t. Rarely. Last night was the first time I masturbated since the year 2016 had started and considering how other guys are I think that means something… but this morning did not seem to be the case she basically changed her tune and said it’s not ever okay and at the average rate I do it now would be only 2 TIMES A YEAR!?!?! once every 5 months!!!!! and we fought about it! how do I explain that she needs to not get upset at me when I do masturbate and she can’t control me and tell me I can’t do it??? Please Help me!!!!!! =(=(=(