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    Sophie123
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    Hi! Here Stephanie. I three questions.

    I met this guy at college about three months ago and I’ve been texting him and he asked me over his place on the first date (it was not really a date because we’re kinda friends).

    The day before we were supposed to meet I texted him and he said in a joking manner that he wanted to make out. But then he cancelled the ”date” and he asked if it could be the day after and I said I couldn’t because I had to study for a test and I asked him if it could be the day after my test and he replied: ”I’ll see if I can”. Then during a week he went silent and I texted him and he repllied: ”Do you really believed about us making out? I was just joking xD” and I replied furious and he said he was serious about me going to his place but the making out part was just kidding. He really made me believe that he wanted to make out, he was texting in a joking manner but he really insisted on it.

    In another day I asked him personally if he still wanted to meet and he didn’t answered me, he just smiled. Then I said: you didn’t answer my question and he asked: ”Monday?” and I said it was ok. But he never confirmed.

    Two weeks later he texted me out of the blue: ”did you noticed? I’ll tell you tomorrow personally” but never did and it’s been two weeks.

    I want to know your opinion. If he never talked about meeting again why did he invited me in the first place? and why did he said ”did you noticed?” out of the blue and said he would tell me personally but never did?And lastly, I’d really like to know if he was really joking about us making out? Thanks 🙂

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    He’s not all that interested in you as much as he is about having some fun for himself — and if you want the same type of fun, then you’re in good company. But if you’re looking for a committed relationship, he’s not the one and this isn’t the situation you’re looking for.

    When a guy is interested in a relationship that goes beyond hooking up, he’ll act like it. He’ll want to impress you and take you out — even if it’s just to coffee and for a walk. When he asks to come by your room or for you to come by his, he’s more interested in hooking up than anything else. When he mentioned making out, he was testing the waters to see if you were game. You weren’t, and that’s why his communication became more sporadic.

    I hope that helps Let me know if you have any other questions.

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