[Yashu]

Recently my ex gf texted me and it’s been 2 months we become so close to eachother. One day she confessed that there’s a guy she meet on Instagram and with him she got involved in online relationship. But they had fight as the guy asked sex from her and they are talking. I asked her to block him she did. Sudden that guy cameback in her life and they started talking eachother she unblocked him. Now when I got to know about this we had arguments I asked her why she did this she said she will not block him will keep door open she will not sex with him but will continue online relationship with him. I got mad and we fight now she is getting rude with me and I am getting hurt. She disrespect me. And the problem is if I don’t reply her instantly or talk with her she gets mad. But if I do try to talk with her she just want me as her friend not as lover yet she knows I genuinely love her. Now I want her back I want she respect me understand my love and start love me and forget that guy..I need help

That Instagram guy knows clearly how to tease her how to manipulate her.. eventually they will do sex…if this doesn’t stop.she is already into him.

It was me whom she said we days back that she wants to have sex with me..as we already shared past memories. What all of sudden happened is this guy entrance for his attention she is waiting but not taking my love as respectfully.. my feelings getting hurt… I can’t stay like a friend in her life….either she is mine or there’s nothing.. everyday she send goodmorning to me..if I don’t reply she gets rude and put blame on me for her mood spoil… If do reply instantly…we don’t speak much…only we are arguing or fighting.

[Jennifer]

I’m not exactly sure what kind of advice you’re asking for because I don’t see a specific question in your story. However, I think what you really want to know is how to get her back, how to earn her respect again, and how to make her choose you over the guy she’s involved with on Instagram.

It’s difficult to force a woman to come back, especially if she no longer wants the relationship and someone else has already captured her attention. It’s possible that she sees something in the man she met on Instagram that she didn’t find in your relationship.

If you truly want her back, be patient with her. Try to win her over again. Show her your effort and let her see how sincere your feelings are. Give her reasons to remember what made your relationship special. Over time, if her feelings for you return, then you can ask her whether she would be willing to give your relationship another chance and rebuild what you once had together.

[Darren]

You should stay away. Before you love someone else, you need to love yourself first. By giving her space and distancing yourself from her, you’ll also see if you are truly important to her.

Because if she misses you, that’s when you’ll realize your value in her life. That’s why you shouldn’t always make yourself available whenever she needs you.

And if you don’t want to stay just as a friend, then step out of the friend zone. Have the courage to accept that if she doesn’t choose you, it’s okay—but you will no longer be part of her life.

In doing so, she might realize that you are actually more important than she thought.

[Lady Rose]

You should just move on—she doesn’t deserve your love. Maybe the reason things didn’t work out between you two before is because you’re not really compatible. What she’s doing to you is hurtful and disrespectful. If she can’t choose you, then she should let you go so you can start over and heal. It’s not right for her to have both of you in her life. It’s clear that she’s just using you and treating you like an option.

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