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    i have been married for 3 years, and at first things were pretty good= but lately (within the last 6 months) my husband has just stopped trying. I have went so far as to tell him what i need- i need more affection, i need him to do things with me, i need him to share feelings, i need him to try to engage in our relationship- but he just doesn’t even know where to start- he came from a pretty loveless family and was never shown HOW to do any of this- how can i show/teach him the emotion he is lacking? Or am i just wasting my time?

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    Ask April Masini
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    You’re not wasting your time, but you need to take a different approach. You have made it very clear what you want and need — but not what you’re willing to do differently. Compromise and re-creating your relationship is what you need to understand to get your marriage back on track.

    If you want more affection, show him more. In fact, show him more sexual interest and recreate yourself sexually. New lingerie, great grooming, a sexy haircut and candle light in the bedroom are just some little tips that can make you feel more sexual and possibly turn him on in a way that will create residual behavior that satisfies your needs that you’re wanting satisfied but haven’t been able to have in the last six months.

    Check out my book, Romantic Date Ideas, for lots of information and advice on getting the X back in your sex life. You can download the book her: [url]http://www.askapril.com/relationship-dating-advice/romantic-date-ideas.html[/url]. Men respond to sex and sexual attention, and my advice to you is to amp up your sex life and see if you don’t get more of what you want outside the bedroom as a result.

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