Okay, I just saw a response to someone on this exact same subject by [b]Misscappucino[/b], and I’m assuming this other java-inspired name, [b]Mokalatte1[/b] is the same person, and just another of your names you use on this website. Please pick one (and register as a user — it’s free!) so I don’t get confused when I’m answering your questions! 🙂
Your question is a good one! The more extensive answer can be found in my book, Think & Date Like A Man, [url]https://www.askapril.com/relationship-dating-advice/think-and-date-like-a-man.html[/url], which I hope you’ll buy for $8.99 at this link, as an e-book or on the websites for Barnes & Noble and Amazon. The short-hand answer is that men want to chase you. They feel good chasing a woman and winning her over. If you give them something to chase, they’re going to feel GREAT when they win you and they’re going to feel even better about you and the relationship.
When you lead, you take that opportunity away from them. That’s why I think it’s a much better idea to hold back and allow him to be the one who says it first.
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