[Anonymous]

Hi. Sorry if this is not the right place to write this but i dont know what other place I can ask this. So ky plan for next year is to go back to school. I have found 3 that i really like but they all in different provinces. I still haven’t chosen the one i want to try for.
My bf and I have been going out for over 2 years and i just recently met his mom. He wants to move back home cause he really misses it. One of the schools that i really like is a hour out of where his family lives. I can see a future with him and i hope that some day we can get married. But would choosing the school by him be the right thing to do? It’s not like we would be living together. And it is the closest school that I like that is.close to my family. I don’t know what I should do. All the schools I like pretty much teach the same courses I need. Please help.

[Ask April Masini]

Don’t make the mistake of putting the cart before the horse. If he asks you to marry him or if he asks you to move in with him or if he asks you to move near him, THEN and only THEN should you consider a move because of a man. Otherwise, you set up expectations (and pressure) for yourself and the relationship and he will feel backed into a corner he may not want to be backed into. 😕 This could backfire on you and the relationship. Let him be the one who takes the lead. Don’t chase him or give him the impression that you’re chasing him.

Apply to the three schools and see which ones you get into, and then discuss the choices with your family and choose the school that is best for YOU and only YOU. 🙂 I hope that helps and I wish you good luck with your education!

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