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    Doug235
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    I am 55 years old. My husband is the same age. He has Parkinson’s Disease for 15 years and is now in the state if dementia. He made it his wish and desire that I do not go without sex if he is in a prolonged state of dementia he does not want me to give up sex . He says I Love sex and for him to expect me to not have sex for years is ridiculous. He even made out a form and signed it and got it notarized. I have met a wonderful man and I am ready and excited to finally have some relief after 5 years of masturbation only. I Love my husband but the sesire to mate is overwhelming now. He said I would want the same if the situation was reversed True indeed

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    Doug235
    Member #371,948

    I am torn over this with guilt but my husband said guilt is not in our vocabulary

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    Do you have a question for me?

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    Doug235
    Member #371,948

    Yes should I feel guilty?

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    Your feelings are personal, and I can’t tell you what to feel or what not to feel. I can, however, help you understand why you’re feeling guilty. Your guilt is an indicator that you think that you’re doing something wrong. That’s why you’re feeling guilty. You think that you’re betraying your marriage and your husband by having sex with someone else. You’re trying to justify making a decision to go outside your marriage for sex, and you’re struggling with that decision.

    If you have any other questions, let me know. I realize that this is a difficult situation for both you and your husband.

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    Doug235
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    Thank you . We did it this weekend . Had my husband home and asked if he felt the same way. He seemed to understand and asked to see. We did it with him there . He seemed to love it. It was wonderful

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    Good luck to you!

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