[LucyIrish16]

Hi all. I’m stuck in a bit of a dilemma and really need some advice, I’m hoping someone can help.
Just over a month ago I met this guy in work who got transferred there for two days and instantly connected. I plucked up the courage to ask him out for a drink with a mate of mine and myself and he agreed, he even text me first the next day to make sure we were still going.
Since then we’ve met up multiple times and really do have a great time together but here’s the thing, when we leave each other to get back to our normal lives (work etc) there’s barely any contact, we would text but he would only reply to a handful of messages and most times it would take him a few hours to text back. I’ve noticed that he goes onto social media after seeing my text and then doesn’t bother texting me back for the night but continues to be on social media.
At this stage I know his routine, he works 9-5, 5-6 days a week and when he goes home all he does is lie in bed and watch Netflix but still manages to ignore my messages. But besides all this when we meet up its totally different, we act like a couple when we’re out and just incase your wondering we don’t always have sex when we meet up, most nights we would just lie in bed talking all night and head to sleep.
Can anyone help me out ? Am I over reacting ? I really do have strong feelings for him. Every Time I see him I get butterflies and go really shy, I’ve never had feelings towards someone this strong before. Do you think I should just ask him out straight what is the deal with him/us or do you think I should wait until he mentions it ? It’s wrecking my head a bit because I’ve stopped talking to other men and he had deactivated his plenty of fish account but I still don’t know what he’s thinking or feeling.
Sorry for the essay I would just love a good bit of advice I can take under my sleeve.
Any thoughts would be great 🙂

[April Masini, your AskApril]

He’s not that into you. 🙁 If he was, he’d behave like he was. I think you should move on.

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