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SHOULD I REPLY OR JUST IGNORE IT ALL

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    SHOULD I REPLY TO THE MESSAGE OR LEAVE IT

    So me and my girlfriend split up after 2 years, we both got in a rut and were fighting to much and needed the break up to give ourself times to change the fhings we needed to. She blocked me our straight away and that caused me to do a few emotional things I regret and I feel they helped me to get over the break up faster, she eventually started to reply after I turned up to her parents house were she was staying to give some things back and I knew we just needed a talk in person, so after that we were fine, a week later I asked if she would wana come get something to Eat and she said she can’t and she’s sorry, I haven’t spoken to her since and then I seen by chance a ad that she had online selling a gift I gave her, so I broke my silence ( this being because I didn’t no if i want her back and I wanted to see if she would even bother If I don’t make all the effort ) and I sent her a text saying that ” it’s worth more then $$.. You can get more then $$.. For it. lol She then sent me these back; It’s a pretty big memory to keep and have to look at every day. And remind me of us. If u can’t understand that well I’m sorry. I was going to remove the ad anyway as no one is interested If you can’t understand that. And are just gonna take offence and get cut. Just remember all the gift you throw in my face when we were together. I’m not gonna argue. I’m not lying about the reason why I’m getting rid of it either Honestly. Weather you want to believe me or not. Would you like to sell or give it to your nieces ? I removed the ad. I just didn’t know what else to do. And I don’t want to ovz just throw it away. I’m not heartless like that. Let me know the ads gone. Plus I’ve got my rangatanggggggg Should I reply or should I wait and reply a few days after she has had time to miss me not always being so available and make her start to actually see im not needy and I might be actually not needing her and moving on or should I just say I don’t care if u sell it I just thought it was funny I seen it? I feel like I have been to emotionally available and she knew she could have me back whenever so should I continue no contact and let her miss me or should I reply and not be rude and not ignore her? Thanks

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    It sounds like she’s moving on if she’s selling gifts you gave her. 🙁 My advice is to either move on yourself, or else wait a month before coming back into her life to try and win her over again. That will really give her the time she needs to miss you, if she does miss you.

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