You should leave. 🙁 You are very clear on what you want and when you want it, but you’re not good at taking care of yourself. 😳 Your boyfriend is not compatible with you because what he wants for himself is different than what you want for yourself. Instead of realizing that he isn’t Mr. Right, you’ve decided to rationalize in your mind that your love for him is worth sacrificing your dreams for. Now after four years, you’re waking up and realizing that your dreams are important to you, and I can assure you that if you stay with him and continue to act as his mother rather than his lover and girlfriend, you will become resentful and bitter.
Instead, cut the cord before you get angry at him. Accept the mature decision that you want a life that isn’t going to work with him and move on. While he will be disappointed, he will understand and there may even be relief for both of you.
I hope that that helps — and that you find the courage to commit to yourself. Doing so, ironically, will make you a better girlfriend and wife to be with the right man. You should also get my book called Think & Date Like A Man, that will give you tips and advice for finding and getting Mr. Right. You can buy the book here: [url]https://www.askapril.com/relationship-dating-advice/think-and-date-like-a-man.html[/url]. I know it’s going to help you a lot.
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