[Anonymous]

Me and my boyfriend of 5 months have nothing in common anymore. We have nothing to talk about. He hates my choices in pastimes, my music, my friends, my lifestyle… he’s always whining about everything, and i my temper has been very short because of it. we don’t really argue. he doesn’t seem to care enough about anything to debate his points. we’re going into 11th grade and i told him how excited i am for prom and my goals to go to all four of my homecomings, which has been successful so far. he doesn’t want to at all. he hates large crowds, and i love them. he hates popular music, and i love it. he hates the way i dress because he doesnt like me getting attention, but i love the attention, because he doesnt give it to me. i don’t know what to do. do i break up with him? i’m actually tempted because i’ve reconnected with a friend who i have so much more in common with, but enough different that we can still make conversation. he’s sweet and he notices me, and i know he’s interested. it would be an amazing relationship. and i didn’t get that feeling before this relationship. should i stay or go?

[April Masini, your AskApril]

It sounds like you should move on. You’ve described incompatibility after incompatibility. It sounds like there is a lot more that you two don’t agree on than that you do. Sometimes you get to know a person and they turn out to be a nice guy, but not a good boyfriend match. It sounds like that’s what’s going on here. If you continue to stay in the relationship and make him be someone he’s not, you’ll end up fighting a lot more. Let go and find a happy relationship with someone who is more compatible with you.

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