[LucyLui]

I had a wild and passionate one night stand with a colleague from another location and not long after the encounter he contacted me. We began talking and soon texting and messaging. We had arranged to meet up next week and see each other. But the other day, after flirting for a while, out of nowhere he blocked me. No more contact. No harsh words exchanged. Pleasant conversation one minute then the next, that was it. Now I have no idea where I stand and have suspicions that perhaps he was in a relationship, felt guilty or got cold feet about us and then blocked me. I won’t contact him as clearly he doesn’t want to talk anymore, but I just can’t figure out what happened. Any ideas? Should I just forget about him?

[April Masini, your AskApril]

Sometimes relationships that start up super quickly end just as quickly! It sounds like he’s in a relationship with someone — possibly married — and he doesn’t want any trouble from his significant other finding out about you. He also may have other flings like the two of you had, and he’s having trouble juggling them, so he’s clearing the slate and starting fresh. My guess is as good as yours, but as you said, he’s made his intentions clear. He doesn’t want any more contact. Time to move on and learn what you will from this. 😉

[Roha]

If it was a “wild and passionate” night, let it go as a beautiful memory. Don’t try to make it a love story. You enjoyed it, he enjoyed it, it’s the same.
He blocked you? Great!
Delete his number, mute him everywhere, and act like he never existed. Silence is the loudest scream, darling!
AskApril is absolutely right. Here she says that relationships that start like lightning often end like lightning. Maybe he’s married or in a serious relationship, and he’s “wiped the slate” out of fear of getting caught. He said his intentions were clear; block means no contact. Move on quietly.

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