[Keketas007]

OK I meant a man on Tinder…he is a widow his wife died 9 yrs ago of colon cancer…He is retired from the military he put in 27 yrs involved in his community on the alumni board with the school he graduated from …WE have talked on the phone he we talked for 3 hrs…He has asked for a date on our 3 hr conversation …He agreed we had a lot of the same views…He asked me to call the next day…He didn’t answer but he immediately called back…But then I got a call… He said to call later when I finished doing what I was doing… I text him because I got in late..He didn’t reply I know first stages of getting to know someone are tricky…Should I call or wait for him to call???May I also add he is 14 yrs my senior 57..

[April Masini, your AskApril]

Wait for him to ask you out on a date, and remember…. Tinder is a hook up site. It’s not a site where people typically look for or have meaningful relationships. People who use Tinder are usually looking for fast and easy sex or fast and easy contact because they’re lonely and not interested in really getting to know someone before connecting in person. As well, there is a lot of competition in dating, and when someone goes on Tinder, they’re going to have lots and lots of options, so if he doesn’t make you a priority — it’s because you’re not a priority.

You’ll know how interested in you he is by his response. But in the meantime…. my advice is that you play the field. Look for men to date on dating sites that are more geared for real relationships or look in person.

I hope that helps! Let me know if you have any other questions.

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