[Anonymous]

ok so here is the scoop. I am 21, and he is 25. We have know each other about 2 months and just recently started dating. I really really like him and he feels the same way. It is great when we are together and we both are much alike. Well today he asked if i wanted to move with him. He is moving away (only about 3 hours, but i dont drive) and he wants me to come with him. I really dont have anything holding me to this city anyways. Would it be a good idea to move or am i being stupid?

[April Masini, your AskApril]

The latter. 😕 Sorry — but you don’t move in with someone you’ve only known for two months and started dating several weeks ago. 😯 That is a recipe for disaster. Don’t follow a man to another city under these circumstances. Stay put. If you’re looking for a reason to move from the city you’re in, this is not a good reason. Follow your career. Or your family. Or your dream city. Don’t follow some guy you met 8 weeks ago. 😯

I hope that helps you make the right decision.

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