Hey!
I need to explain everything clearly because these things have become very difficult for me, and I don’t want you to give me any advice without understanding the whole situation.
I love a woman who is five years older than me. What I feel with her isn’t drama or infatuation – it feels stable and peaceful like real adult love., and there is a maturity in her personality that is not found in any ordinary girl.
She is divorced and has three children. As a good friend, she has been nothing but loyal and loving to me.
We are both serious about each other and love each other very much, and want to get married.
The problem is not the relationship, but my family’s reaction to it.
My mother saw her with me a few days ago, and she really dislikes her. She thinks that if I marry her, my life will be ruined. But I love her very much, and she gives me peace, but my mother doesn’t understand this.
My mother was constantly crying and saying that I was destroying the family and that they only lived for me, but I love my parents very much. I didn’t understand what to do. I listened to my mother and ended the relationship with her.
When I broke up with this girl, she was very upset, but I was also very worried. I didn’t want to lose my parents. I stopped contacting her for a while.
I couldn’t find peace, so I contacted her again.
I feel trapped right now between two queens I care deeply about, my mother and my girlfriend. No matter which way I go, someone gets hurt. I don’t know what to do. I’m emotionally exhausted.
I need your emotional support because I don’t know what to do.
I am very badly stuck. On one side is true love, and on the other side is the stubbornness of my own people. I don’t know whether to be a good son or a good boyfriend
AskApril Please give me expert advice and tell me what I should do.
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