[Freya Jhon]

Hi
AskApril, I hope you are well. I am new to your forum, but I have been reading your posts for a long time, and I am happy that you are giving people such good advice.
I am a marketing consultant, and I get the opportunity to talk to new people on a daily basis.
I am a single mother, and I have two children. My main purpose for posting here is to get expert advice from you, and I would also like those who read my post to tell me their thoughts.
I am very social, and many people are attached to me, the majority of men. I have always heard them say that they are not happy with their wives. Many of them have proposed to me or offered to date me because they feel I am very active, attractive, talk well, and am confident and their wives are not like this.

I still haven’t been able to understand the mindset of these men. I don’t understand those men who have love marriages and, at the beginning of a marriage or relationship, they find their wives so wonderful that it becomes difficult for them to live without them. But after some time, all of that ends. Now, tell me, whose fault is this? The husband’s or the wife’s?

I apologize for such a long post; I am entangled in these thoughts, which is why I want your advice. Also, April please advise those wives who ignore their husbands, causing their husbands to drift away over small mistakes.

[Mia Monita]

Hello Freya, I think those men saying they’re not happy with their wives are those men who doesn’t know how to be contented. They only want to flirt you and prove that they’re handsome if they got you. Don’t waste your time to those flirt men. If they can fool their wives, they can probably do it to you in the future.

[Simon]

Dear, it’s simple, they don’t love you, they just suffer from Gross is Greener syndrome.
You don’t have to listen to what these men say, but remember that these men are looking at you like escape, not as a human being. Don’t ruin your peace of their words. They are not looking for a perfect wife, but rather an escape from responsibility.

[Lamine]

There are two types of Love. The passionate Love and the Companionate Love. The Passionate love is intense and engulfing. The kind that you can’t eat until you talk to them. It feels like you’re on drugs, because there are lots of neuro-chemical stuff happening.

Like someone on drugs, you may see nice things that aren’t actually there, or miss red flags that are actually there. And like every drug, at some point you will become sober, and start seeing the things you missed or realize that they are not exactly who you thought they were. That is the case with passionate love.

Also, at times you develop resistance to a dose, and need to increase the dose to get your usual high, but usually, when people get maried they start doing or being less of what made their partner fall in love with them, for example, reduced effort in appearance.

So, when you need a higher dosage, you are getting a lower dosage.

So they come up to you (a higher dosage) at the time, but you may end up having the same faith as their current wife, because that is what passionate love does to you.

What we should all seek is Companionate love, it is stable, deep and long term.

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