So, I know this is really bad but, I was wondering psychologically why this has happened! I am single and I have been talking to a bloke on and off for two years, he has been in a relationship for 2 years also. Anyway, I know him from school but haven’t spoken for years. He started talking to be on facebook, text etc and I immediately got hooked, I really liked him and we kept talking, inappropriately without his girlfriend knowing, I know it’s awful but I couldn’t help it. He kept saying he wanted to meet, I was reluctant for a long time but eventually I called his bluff and said go on then. Then five mins later he would say no he can’t as he loves his girlfriend and loves her. Making out it’s just me that’s in the wrong! He then wouldn’t talk to me for a few months, then come back and chat randomly, and so on and so forth it kept repeating. Anyway, once, he decided to meet and I thought ok, just willing to chat etc. So we met up when she was ‘working late’ we chatted for 2 hours and before he went he kissed me then got home saying how much he enjoyed it blah blah, we chatted for 2 weeks on end and then one morning he messaged me to say what a mistake he has made and that she has found out and he wants nothing to do with me and that’s that he deleted me off of facebook I thought yeah ok I have been really bad, etc, so yeah left it at that. 5 months later, he decided to come back! probably realising he got away with it…. so he came over my house, and we kissed, we didn’t sleep together but other activities were involved… anyway he got home then said straight away its wrong etc etc so I left it again. then a month later he started sending me topless photos saying he wants me again. This time she actually found out what happened and he was messaging me saying he doesn’t know what to do he doesn’t wanna lose her. Anyway we haven’t spoken since but I know through the grapevine that they are together. This happened in aug when she found out. I haven’t heard anything since as he has deleted all his accounts etc so I have no way of getting hold of him. I want to talk to him explain myself etc. But I haven’t. I am thinking he may come back in the near future maybe… seeing as he kept coming back before.. I don’t know. She knows we have met and she is still with him. I don’t know if he is going to get in contact with me again. We are both young 21.. so yeah. When we met he was all romantic saying he really likes me etc, it’s so odd why does he want to see me then chicken out saying its wrong afterwards? surely he knows it’s wrong anyway! help!
