Hi, I’m here right now because I’m curious about these “red flags” people talk about. I don’t have a boyfriend at the moment, but there’s someone courting me, he’s 26 years old and I’m 27. He’s sweet and really nice to talk to, so I enjoy every phone call and text conversation with him.
But sometimes I notice certain behaviors that I don’t really like, which is why I’m still unsure whether to accept him. He tends to get jealous even though we’re not officially in a relationship yet. He asks who is texting me and gets annoyed when I comment on other guys’ posts on social media. For me, he’s not in the position to monitor me or feel jealous over other men. It makes me think that if we become a couple, I might see even more red flags from him. I admit I’m starting to catch feelings for him, but there’s something holding me back, which is why I haven’t given him an answer yet. I want to understand,
What are the biggest red flags in a relationship?
