[Shyrel]

I met William at a bar when my friend and I went out to hang out. I happened to stand beside him while ordering drinks and that’s when he introduced himself to me. We exchanged our numbers and that’s how our getting-to-know-each-other stage started. I’m 25 years old and he is 29. He’s a businessman, so we rarely go out because he’s always busy with his business. We’ve only been dating for almost two months and we’ve only gone out four times so far. Sometimes when I invite him for coffee, he can’t make it because he has meetings. During our last date, he arrived more than 30 minutes late and I waited for him the whole time because I missed him. Right now, I’m curious and want to know: What are the early red flags in a man I’m dating?

[Luis]

It’s hard to immediately say something is a red flag when you’ve only just started getting to know and dating each other. You should first take time to carefully observe her behavior.

For me, yes that’s a red flag because you’ve waited him for about 30 minutes on your date and keeps you waiting, but even then, there could still be a valid reason, maybe he got caught in traffic or his meeting ended late. The best thing is still to communicate with each other.

Don’t overthink or immediately look for red flags. Just assume that businessmen are often really busy. Keep checking in on him and try to make him smile to help ease his stress because he might already be stressed with his business while you’re already thinking something is wrong with him.

[Member]

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