[areejjaved]

Hi, i’ve been in an on/off relationship with my bf, he’s a year younger than me. We got together on 1 Jan, but he acted like very heart borken for two days, i felt really guilty cuz he blames me for his broken heart cuz i said no to him to do more than kissing. He kept saying to me at the time getting back together that ‘meet me if u wana be with me’ and i was like okay i’ll meet u soon. I keep asking him to go out with me but he says that he have car issues and that it’d be easy for him to meet me at my house when im alone which scares me.. We met twice at my home when i was alone. Once, he tried to get his hand under my shirt but i stopped him and then after few months he broke up with me and blames me for ruining our relationship. Then the second time we met i let him have his hand go anywhere but i wasnt home alone so we didnt do much then when we talked later he told me that nothing changed and he broke up with me. Now he again wants to meet me alone at my home and he’s looking forward to have sex with me and im okay with it but the thing that scares me is that what if he again says after meeting me and having sex that nothing’s changed and he just break up with me again? What should i do??? Help me 🙁

[April Masini, your AskApril]

He just wants sex from you. 😳 That’s it. 😕 My advice is to find someone who wants you for you — not just for sex.

And for future… don’t YOU ask a guy out on a date. 😮 Instead, see if he wants to date you enough to ask you out himself. If he doesn’t, you can assume he doesn’t like you enough to date you. 😉

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[areejjaved]

Im not good at breaking up.. Can u guide me how to do it without hurting him? 🙁

[areejjaved]

And what if things really change after sex? Wont it change? I dont wana loose him 🙁

[April Masini, your AskApril]

You can’t lose him because you don’t have him. 😳 When a guy only wants sex from you, he’ll stick around as long as he thinks he can get it. Once he realizes he can’t, he’s going to look elsewhere for it.

I know you like him, but he doesn’t like you in the same way, and my advice is that you find someone who does. 😉 As for breaking up with him, there are several ways to do this, but understand that breaking up is normally painful — breaking anything is painful. But the reality is that you’ve only been “with” him for a week and that’s not really a break up. 😳 If you only see him if he asks you out on a date, and not because he’s coming over for sex or sexual activity, he’ll disappear before you know it — a break up will be unnecessary. But if you want to tell him you’re breaking up with him and why, my advice is to just do it, but understand that he thinks he can still get you to give him sex without romance or a relationship — because that’s his experience with you, and he’s going to continue to try until he sees you’re serious.

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[areejjaved]

I forgot to mention.. We got together in september 2011 and he broke up with in march 2012 and ever since then he comes back every month and hardly stay with me for a week and leaves me alone.. I dont know whats wrong with me that i always take him back and try harder to set things out but he dont even try cuz he says that i broke his heart and he doesnot have any strength left but still he comes back to me and blames me for ruining our love i really feel guilty about this.. He dont even try to understand my feelings but i consider ur advice it made me think that you’re saying right and i will really do something about it.. I just need time to make up my mind and i’d really put ur point in light..

[areejjaved]

Hi again, i broke up with him as like u and alot of people told me to do after hearing me. Well, its just that he said before saying bye that ‘now dont cry if i die or somthing happen to me” and im scared now.. I really wana know how is he but i just cant text him, maybe it’d be wrong if i text him.. Ahhhh i just wana know if he’s okay or not.. What should i do? 🙁

[April Masini, your AskApril]

[quote]What should i do? [/quote]

You should stop investing your energy in someone who doesn’t care about you. 😉

Focus on meeting someone new. 😀

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