It sounds like you’re not picking men who are good matches for you, if as you say, you either get dumped or get bored. There are two reasons why this is happening and where you can make some positive changes. The first is to know WHY you want a boyfriend. Some people want excitement. Some want a monogamous companion. Some want romance. Some want a best friend with benefits. None of these are right or wrong — but you have to decide what YOU want in a man. And even IF you want a boyfriend right now in your life. If you don’t, that’s okay — but don’t try to make yourself be in a relationship when you really don’t want one after all.
Second, if you do want a boyfriend, what kind of man is going to be right for you? It sounds like you were bored without this current boyfriend, and he was just a one night stand to cure your boredom, but out of inertia, he because your default boyfriend. I know you say he’s got great qualities — but are they great qualities FOR [i]YOU[/i]? The better you know yourself and are aware of who you are deep down and what makes you happy, annoyed and yes, even bored, the better a matchmaker you can be for yourself! Just because a guy looks good and has some fine qualities, doesn’t make him right for you. So know yourself and then discriminate among the guys you date so you may cure that boredom.
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