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I don’t think I was clear when I said I had known him for a short time. It was another guy I was with three months after I moved out. Secondly it was my ex’s home is why I had to move out. When he started dating his ex I was still liven in the home I hadn’t moved out all though he told me it was over between us.

My ex believes that I am not as respectable because I was intimate with someone after only knowing the other guy for one month. But he fills what he has done is not held to the same standard because he is a man and it was his ex.

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Should I feel insecure as if I made a bad mistake just because I with someone I has only known a short period of time? Does it make him more respectable because it was his child’s mother that he was intimate with and the fact he has known her for many years?

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I have another issue I recently got back with my ex whom called off our relationship and pending wedding earlier this year. I had to move out and start all over again after 7 years of us being together. He immediately started befriending his ex whom he has a child with before I had a chance to move out of the home we shared together. Once I moved out he began a relationship with his ex. I met someone several months later that I really liked. But after my ex pleaded and begged me to give him another chance I broke it off with the other guy and we began exploring our relationship again. However, it has been a lot of heartache since we got back together. I have to deal with the fact that his ex is always going to be a factor because they have to co parent their child together. Second he looks down on me because I slept with the guy I was dating within 4 weeks. And he brings it up constantly supposedly as a joke and at times very sarcastically. In his eyes I broke his heart and should have waited much longer before sleeping with this other guy. To him what he did was not a determent to his character or morals because he had a history with his ex and they have a child.

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