your right april and i hate to bother you with the same problem. i did end it. i told her that i wasn’t with you for money and she said she isn’t with me for money so i told her you pay your half of everything which would leave her with 3 dollars and i’ll keep my money and see how far love goes. well she came back the same afternoon with her daughter and said she was moving. i told her if you leave the lease goes by the month so in 2 day’s i pay the rent and your not on the lease anymore. she took some things and i told her she could leave her things here until she gets setup. i asked her for the key and she gave it to me. she asked for her email address and i told her i deleted it which i did and i also deleted her facebook account. it’s my computer it was on. when she was leaving she said her nerves are torn apart and she said mine are probably too. she said she loves me but its funny how money makes a difference. i’ll just chock it up to experience. it hurts alittle that it had to be this way but like you said i need to take care of myself. thanks for all your help. i’m so glad you were here and were honest. take care and i hope you reply one last time.