Hi April,
This did help and I have officially filed for divorce so this chapter in my life is officially closed. Neither one of us contested anything it was completely joint. My plans now are to take some time for me but I do feel like the relationship I had with the guy I was dating has some unfinished business. In spite of not being ready to take a relationship on at the time I truly feel that the relationship might be worth checking out in the future. I was with this person because I wanted to be, not because he was a substitute in any way, we are friends right now so the lines of communication are open between us. The last time we hung out he asked when the divorce is going to be completely done. Truth of the matter is that I truly fell in love with him. We are friends right now, and I would like to find out/explore if a relationship in the future is a possibility. Any suggestions?