[Peaceandlove]

We never really had problems in the sex months since we have dated occasionally she wanted me to put on a strap on but to be honest I was never into that and sure she got annoyed but it was never a problem. The real problem now is her coldness towards me. Ever since she brought that up she has been very,very cold towards me! Asking if I am ” free” at odd times when she assumes I am off and never considering I do work and I am assuming she is upset that I am not free when she wants me to be but work is something I cannot help. Like I said Friday afternoon she asked if I was ” free” but she assumed I was off and I said I am working and she said forget it nevermind. I call her back when I get off again trying to fulfill her desires and be a lovely boyfriend and she blows me off and says chat with you later. We have not spoken since Friday and she hasn’t even attempted to call me or anything.

Again I want to be a good boyfriend and fulfill her desires but with an attitude like chat with you later it is kinda rude. My real question is now should I even bother calling her or just wait for her to call me? I want to fulfill her desires and be more sexual but again her attitude towards me Friday was uncalled for when all I said was I am free and she makes a snide remark chat with you later and never did even bother calling me back. Please help me April. What should I do? Wait or call her? I am torn and upset.

[Peaceandlove]

I am 25 and she is 33. Ideally I would love to have sex everyday but she works alot so sex does not come around as much as we would like. As a matter of fact we haven’t even had sex in over a month! Recently she came over to my place and said I am not feeling to well but I wouldn’t mind some oral so I gave her oral and she went to bed and we didn’t even share the bed together I ended up taking the couch because she said she wasn’t feeling well. She did however say before she went to bed we can have fun in the morning needless to say that never happened because she overslept and had to go to work. Recently she called me on Friday afternoon asking if I was ” free” which is usually code work for sex and I told her I was working she said nevermind you are working forget it. I was upset but when I got off I said darling I am ” free” and she said to me chat with you later. I haven’t even spoken to her since Friday and for someone who wanted to chat with me later she has not made any effort or for someone who wants me to be sexual she isn’t making any effort when I try to be fulfill her desires.

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