[matt2011]

[quote]Though I have absolutely no idea what position she is in, in her personal life, may you put yourself in her position and tell me how YOU would react if I was to ask you out?[/quote]

A good friend of mine has been employed as a stripper for over a year now. Given that…

You don’t have a shot. If she were actually interested in you, she’d have given you her number, or at least asked for yours*. She was making you feel special. It’s her job, and she’s good at it. She was saying (and doing) what she had to to make you like her. That’s how she makes money. That’s how she gets people to come back and see her (again, and again).

She gets asked out by clients all the time. You asking her out won’t even phase her, even if she acts like it does. If you decide that you’ve got to try, it’s pretty much going to end one of two ways:
1) She’ll find a way to decline without saying as much, and encourage you to “visit” her at the club sometime.
2) She’ll accept, assuming that you’re going to spend a bunch of money on her. I’d say this is fairly unlikely given that she knows you don’t have a boatload of money to spend on her.

Note(*): Even giving you her number or getting yours (and her actually calling) doesn’t necessarily mean anything. Many girls have two phones. One for clients, and one for everyone else.

Long story short, why not find someone you’re a bit more compatible with (and that you’ve actually got a chance with)?

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